(((queentree))) sounds like your still going through such a tough time, so sorry for that. Mine was a daily drinker. My exabf worked in the schools so he was out by 2:30 in the afternoon and I worked till 5 and then went to the gym so basically he would drink from 3 p.m. till i met up with him and if i wasn't he would drink till closing. Very sad life, and of course when he was actively drinking and i couldn't find him, I got the "had no phone reception" excuse...how convenient!