Gosh, I want to say something wise and enlightening but I am new to this site and don't have enough legs under me yet to be able to say much more than "good for you for calling him out". I get the same "opps I slipped" excuse too and it's only good the first few times then it gets old, like "I'm sorry" . If you hear it over and over again you just quit believing. Believe in yourself and believe you deserve better. I don't know if you haven't been patient if you've been on this roller coaster for 3 1/2 years. I hope you get some good feedback on your thread. I think you're doing pretty darn good!