I have been angry at God many times, and I beleive he understands! I finally came to understand that his "grace is sufficient" and I may get mad again and not understand. But, he love us, is there and he didn't let anything happen. He gives us all choices, and if we go down the wrong road--our choice. However, He is always there, reaching out to us...all we have to do is reach back!
Prayers for you and yours,
susan