WOW!!! GREAT FOR YOU. No you were not being mean. You were right on the mark. You did the right thing and you are correct... a gaint leap in your own recovery!!!
GOOD JOB!!! Now stay strong. Do not beat yourself up and rethink it. It was the right thing to do. You did GREAT!!!
((((((((((((((((MAJOR HUGS)))))))))))))))
-Broken