Amy,
I come from a very small family, and I had a favorite aunt and uncle who were a blessing to me! I didn't get to see my aunt in the year before she died, and I have regretted that. I made a trip and spent time before my uncle died, and then I didnt' go to the funeral. I decided I would rather spend time with him than to see all the OTHER relatives at his funeral!
I will keep your family in my prayers.
Cats