Welcome to SR!
Congratulations on your progress.
I have no personal experiences
as I did not go to a re hab.
I did relapse often ...took me 5 years
in AA to earn my 1 year medallion.
Here is a link to excerpts from the book
that finally convinced me to stop.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...influence.html
Blessings to you and your wife