Terri,
Mine never embraced recovery either and when the kids and I confronted him via an intervention....family style....he made his mind up right then and there that I had gone over to the "other" side. It was all downhill from there and then shortly after this thats when the other woman came into view.....his choice. He grew it now he can chew it. Stay strong sweetie....we have your back. ((((((((((((Terri))))))))))))
Janitw