lobo,
thank you for the reply. I will think about what you said and I appreciate your insight. Part of me just doesn't want to be accused of starting something or saying something to upset the applecart. I sort of want to stay out of the line of fire until a decision has been made one way or the other. Probably too , if I am honest, I want to wait on the hair follicle test . I have been burned so many times before I just don't think I can go down that road again........my thanks for the good points you brought up......dixie