lobo,
thank you. you make a very good point. I need to be reminded of that. It just galls me that she takes over half his salary and with the remainder he pays rent, etc. I became concerned because he has lost over 15 pounds regarding his weight and he volunteered to my brother that he had been skipping lunch because he hadn't even had sandwich meat in the last few days........so i guess I am angry right now. No one should have to go without food but I will try to keep my opinions to myself. thank you for reminding me what is outside my hula hoop shouldn't concern me........dixie