Relationships are not easy to get over at times. We find it hard to grasp the reality of it all and we still hang on to what we thought was there.
Yes I said thought.
In time you will see things much more differently after you have been out of the hurricane for awhile.
I think a bigger issue to deal with is the question of why you would want to stay in an unhealthy relationship filled with turmoil.
Alanon helped me to explore this somewhat.
That and getting out and doing things on my own without the clouds of despair hanging up over my head.
You know I’ve been at this for some time now.
I’ve met a lot of women out there that are pretty messed up for one reason or another.
I find myself cutting them off very fast when I see things now.
I do not settle for someone just to have someone.
I don’t have to, and you don’t either.
Life is much more then living for someone. It’s living for you and making your days you have left on this planet the best yet.