Congrats on the new house Lady!
I have a feeling your sis knows you love her and support her emotionally in her struggle.
I made the mistake on many occassions of stepping in and taking the reprussions from the slips off of my son. When I did that, I also took away the chance to make things right. I held resentment for what he had done and for what I had to "do" to make things right.
That really wasn't fair of me to do that.
She owns her behavior, and I'm sure is grateful that her sister is in the wings cheering her along regardless.
Just like with us, recovery is rarely a straight line.
I'll keep her in my prayers.
(((Hugs)))
Cece