They don't come clean, they don't know how to and they are afraid to let go of their means of survival which is lying and putting on a million false faces.
My ex was like yours, lived a double, triple life. It was hard for him after awhile to keep the lies straight.
Ngaire
Originally Posted by
Buffalo66 
Thank you for that, gns... I guess that is the only way to go, now. Only actions matter.
He is telling people things and they are filtering it back to me, that he is claiming he cant even think about being with anyone(sexually). That he is heartbroken over my not contacting him. He cant get it up, since I dont speak to him... He is going to make things right with me if it takes his whole life...Yadda yadda. WHY???
I think he is so full of it. I just CANNOT understand what they think they are going to gain from all that lying??? WHY? .......after a while it is just; WHY?
Why wouldnt a person like this just realize they have been revealed, and just play the part that they chose? If its good enough to do, it should be good enough to admit to. I mean he isnt a murderer, just an a-hole.a really major a-hole.