First off Buff, put it in perspective. Do you really want to care about what a bunch of folks who hang out in a bar think? Also, is it really going to help YOU by knowing all of the nitnoid details of his affairs? Whether it be 1 or 75? I mean seriously, it will only serve to make you feel crappier than you already do, so why do it?
It wasn't you who was out screwing anything and everything with a pulse, that's his problem and as long as you're not having sex with him it doesn't have to be your problem (STD's and such).
I know it's hard to not obsess, I'd be lying to you if I said I don't obsess on things myself, but since I'm not obsessing right now, it's my duty to try and help you not obsess. I'm sure I'll be needing you to bring me back to my senses when I go on one of my obsessing binges.
