Aquarian, the term is therapist or counselor and you need to find one for yourself the. I's important to find the "right" counselor, one that specializes in family therapy and alcohol alcohol addiction. Go alone. Also attend Alanon meetings. The best way to help your husband is to help and educate yourself. Your AH needs to dedicate himself to recovery for the rest of his life. It's not a go for a while and you're cured thing.
Good luck and keep posting!