awwww, yes reallady....i remember that smug face on my x, too. i was not in recovery at the time and felt insulted, humiliated, and madder than a wet hen.
how could she????? couldn't she take one look and see he was the whacko????
lololololo
but, it was a beginning for me to look at myself and my motives. it sure didn't happen overnight, in fact it took 4 years for me to accept i was not blessed with the ability to fix the unfixable, and to accept that i was not omnipotent, and that god hadn't chosen me to be his right hand man.
it all helped me to understand many things about myself, so i will be grateful for the experience.....although i did not like it.....not one damn bit!!!