One son lives next door...He's the one who drinks and....(don't have anwsers on that one yet) Spouse who can drive for 8 hours in the car and never says anything but there's a d*** cop...Next door son, either says nothing (when sober) or talks loud and long when drinking but says the same thing over and over and over...you all know how it goes......
OH is my most used word for days on end.....as for himself....I quit years ago trying to VISIT with him...He's the strong and silent type unless he is (Heaven help us all) explaining to you how to do something the RIGHT WAY.
JT, you have my utmost admiration.
ONE THING I KNOW TODAY....I'd rather learn from your pain that to have to experience it first hand.....Thank you for sharing....One never knows when the knowledge is going to be needed....
Love and prayers from one who cares