I'm not sure we can really compare which is better.When I was single I often longed for a partner.Now I'm married and sometimes would like the freedom of being single again-LOL.I think both states have their advantages and disadvantages but what I've learned is-we experience more of the good stuff when we're grateful for what 'is'-be it with someone or not.
For me, recovery being married is probably better, in that my husband doesn't drink.I would really struggle if he did-it would almost be impossible for me to be in that situation.
Interesting topic Sharon.Thanks!