Originally Posted by
cdk1972 
Is it bc he doesn't want to admit it?
(((cdk))) he's probably in denial that he has a problem. My ex told me he knew he needed to quit and needed help, so i helped him but they need to hit THEIR bottom to want to quit. It's nothing you did, said, didn't do, it's what he has chosen and no one can make him stop but him. You can hope he seeks treatment/help and quits but it's all upto them. Not a single reason you should feel guilty. You loved and supported him and now it's upto him to want to get better. I'm thinking of you, keep your chin up.