Originally Posted by
mikee 
The definition of insanity is: repeating the same behavior..over and over again expecting differant results....why cant i learn this?
Well, that defines one form of insanity, and is often used in AA. In any case, it sounds like you’ve already learned that this is insane behavior.
We also have another saying in AA, "there is no chapter called 'Into Understanding.'" We do have a chapter called “Into Action.” Have you taken any action yet? Just asking.