....sometimes it is so simple and we seem to make it hard. The first step...admitting that we are powerless...is about realizing that all the things we have done in the past have not worked. When I started in this program that was one fact that was glaringly obvious...all the screaming, and following, and searching and phone calls and fights and more screaming had not done one thing to change what the A was doing. After you face that fact the only thing left to do is accept it. And once you can accept that one thing the next obvious thing to do is let him/her go. All the skillets in our collective welcome packets are not going to change one thing regarding the choices they make...
That's my story and I'm stickin' to it!
Love,
JT