Just remember that the way he looks and the way he is living is probably bothering you more than it is him. As long as he can afford his drug of choice the rest does not matter. Only when the drug stops working for him will he decide to make a change. Glad that you are doing well. It is hard to watch them self-destruct. That is why I won't do it with my daughter anymore. (and if that makes me cold hearted, so be it. I want to survive.
) Hugs, Marle