Lake said it all as far as I am concerned. My addict is my daughter. She is my child and I won't and can't live without her in my life. I will never understand how anyone would stay with an abf or an agf. You have nothing to gain and everything to lose.
I could even walk away from an AH......my addicted child.......not me. I'm not saying that I will put up with everything that goes with having an addicted child just because she is my child........I will work on my recovery, keep my boundaries and take good care of myself. Even though my child means the world to me I know that my first responsibilty is taking care of me.
Run while you have a chance. You deserve so much better and you have a choice.
Hugs and prayers..............Lo