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Old 08-22-2007, 12:14 PM
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Change4life
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******{Karim}}}}

I love you!!!

Dont listen to your Dad. My mom use to do the same thing. Always had somehting negative to say. Convinced me I would never be anything. I finally called her on it. she has beeen better since, but i have to remind her sometimes and it causes fights.
We dont see each other much, but talk on the phone often. when she starts in with me I just hang up. it seems to be working she doesnt talk down to me anymore, but it took time for her to reaalize I was serious and would not tolerate her belittling me.

I hope you can work past this with your dad.

Have you ever told him how much his negative words hurt you?

Sometimes people dont realize what they say is hurtful.

I hope you can work through this.

DONT LET HIM GET TO YOU. YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON.
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