"he will do whatever he wants WHENEVER he wants"
I have heard this from every single friend my ABF has. I'm so tired of hearing it. And I'm tired of knowing that it's true. Even worse my ABF says:
"When someone tells me not to do something, it makes me want to do it more."
Maybe I should tell him to drink more, kill himself, sleep with every woman he meets, spend all his money, etc.