Thread: Spoke to my ex
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Old 08-20-2007, 07:18 PM
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cece1960
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((((Jewelz)))
I'm glad you were able to have a sincere conversation with your ex.
I enjoy an excellent relationship with my ex, the father of my kids. I have for some time.
Many people are amazed considering he flat out dumped me for another gal. We had two kids 2 and 3, and I was pregnant with my youngest.
Somehow I found it in me for the sake of the kids to put the anger and hurt aside. I know, its sounds grand and all but I think a large part was due to less than healthy codie tendencies
But the bigger issue was that he had to also. If one of us had remained there, a healthy relationship would have been impossible, no matter how hard I tried.
And he was a good father, even if he stunk as a husband. Thats more than many are left with.
I'm glad a door has opened that before had felt closed.
(((Hugs)))
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