Caution Maddie....Kindness can be toxic to the Addict.
Please sit down with someone and talk this over. I don''t know your history or your loved ones.
He should have thought this through when he walked out of the sober house.
Maybe you would like to pay his way back to the sober house.
It sounds like you have a credit card that you want to spend on him.
Be careful my dear.
Then detach with love.....give him some time to get his recovery prioritized.