respektingme - yes I'm an Al-Anon member. I got at least twice a week and I've been going to AA on other days. Quite frankly, I could probably use two meetings a day but my schedule doesn't allow for it. I have two young girls to take care of too.
I knew this was coming. This is the second time this week he has left the house to drink and stay out all night. This is the second time he has used the excuse that I don't want to listen to him to leave and not come home. That is a deal breaker for me. We have other rooms in our house where he can retire to if he doesn't want to be in the same room as me. If I say that, he'll use the excuse that he doesn't know if he can control himself and not harrass me so it's better he leaves (drunk). Any excuse. It's all BS to me.
Jenny