Boundaries
I have read alot about drawing boundaries and writing down rules for yourself to follow --
I think that's a very productive idea.
My abf is 35 days or so into his recovery. He is very supportive of me working a program. I've been thinking about sharing my list of boundaries with him. Perhaps he can even point out additional ways that I can work on worrying about myself first and foremost. He shares alot of the elements of his "treatment plan" and often asks for my thoughts as I have another viewpoint. Would it help to hear his thoughts? Or is this something best kept to myself?
I don't see the harm in having a conversation about it as long as I stick to my guns. He usually encourages me to do so anyway.
...but i don't see the harm in alot of things that those much wiser than myself are able to point out....