I remember my father telling me "YOU MISSED A GOT CHANCE TO KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT". He has been living with his drug friends for 3 months now. I find I have been really ripping into ah-every time he calls or stops by. He quacks and I just have to say something like(you used that excuse last week). I cannot talk with him-he talks at me. We can talk together maybe one day and mo. and poof more lies and he is gone. I have sense about what he is doing but have asked no one any questions-just the wait and see for a while longer.
This recovery is a slow learning process-but stick with it-things are getting better! Take care of yourself.
Get some bubblewrap and stomp on it!!!!!!!!!!!!