A Little of My Story
Hello, to everyone...I fell like I know you all as I have been "lurking" quite a while. I have a hard time with trust and communication with people. I am 20 years married to an alcoholic that has said and done everything that I have read about here. This site has helped me so much in the past few months I just wanted to let you all know. In October of last year I told my AH that if he did not do something about his drinking that I was going to divorce him. He flipped me off and chugged his beer. In December I moved out of our room into my own room, got a job, my own bank account and credit card. In June I moved out. I live with my daughter and her husband in their house. It helps us all out financially and we all get along great. Of course the AH acts like I am the crazy one. I am trying no contact or as little as possible but it is hard when we own a house and other debt together. I have good days and really bad days. I come here and read everyday and get a lot of hope and strength and sometimes really feel the need to share. Especially to say Get out! get out! get out! to the ones who are struggling making up their minds. Get out today! Don't waste your lives with someone who does not care about you in a positive way. MY soon to be X-AH and I brought out the worst in each other. I don't believe that is what relationships are supposed to be about. Anyway to each and every one of you here Good luck and Thanks SO Much!