Yes, me too, an enabler from way back, I have to force myself to keep my boundaries. It seems the opposite of what we think a good mom is or a good christian. But as always, life is a lot more complex than when we first become a mom and hold that little babe in our arms or when we first become Christians. We are not the same person. We change, learn and grow. And often the dream is just that...a dream, not reality.
krhea