My next step in this process is to begin the same thing with my siblings, a previous ex, and....probably the most difficult ones....my parents! Don't know which one I'll deal with next. The right one will present itself when I'm ready I guess.
ICU you are such an inspiration to me and I'm sure alot in here! I did the parent's process and it was difficult but, WOW what a feeling to be so close with my mother as I'm older (older emotionally too!
) As for my father I was not fortunate enough as he is no longer with us. I need to work on this with others in life too including the XABF.
...finding compassion for me was such a good thing in my recovery process. hating my xh and his actions and choices just wore me out.
Embrace said so perfect! I think I have found compassion I just need to start working on applying it!
ICU thank you for this wonderful post again!