Hi, Newblue, I know how that feels. I used to get calls from my ex everytime he ended up in the hospital detoxing after binging. He used to leave me voice mails sounding so serious and urgent "I really need to talk you... call me back ASAP" blah blah blah, like I am suppost to stop everything and attend to his "crisis". When he is out doing whatever he is doing, he even turns off his cell so that he doesn't have to talk to me for days!! how selfish... I think it must have taken you a lot of strenths to just sit there and not to give her comforting words as she expected. Great job!