Trying this again
I joined this forum a while back and never really followed up or stayed in touch..... Guess I wasn't totally committed to helping myself.
Things with my AH aren't awful right now, but that's the cycle we go through. He got really bad in April and May - lying about going to work to go out drinking with his buddies. Went missing for one night and woke up passed out in his car.
The lying is what drives me insane. It's gotten to where even if it's not related to him going out and drinking, he still lies because somehow the truth just can't come out of his lips.
I struggle because he functions on a daily basis - manages to go to work, manages to help with dinner, putting our 3 year old to bed.... so is he really all that bad?
Anyway - I'm a newbie and I'm finding comfort in knowing that others are going through this too.