Not yet. But I am strongly considering taping his abusive behavior while drinking. In the meantime, I am an recovering alcoholic who married an active (not so bad as now) alcoholic. What can I say? I have finally surrendered to the alanon program and this time I really know I belong. I can actually hear some of the things they are telling me, and working on changing me. I am also taking my 13 & 9 year old to the next Alateen meeting to introduce them to the program.