Cage and Mr. C could not have said it any better!
MTB
My XABF came into this forum! When I was together with him I found this site for
ME not thinking back then....(codie crazies "hello" waves) told him how I thought it could be a good thing for him! Until I realized as Cage said.......
He will continue to lie, manipulate and live life on any terms but life's terms. This is what I can EXPECT from him.
but there was nothing I could do the damage of telling him was done!
He signed up posted a couple of times and never came back in for over a year 1/2 and then one day BAM! The Admin.s and everyone will tell you! "waving" codie crazies kicked in again until I was reminded by all the wonderful SR peeps.....to relax! If I wanted to change my name that I could...when I calmed down..all was good...as you see I have not changed my name yet and if I decide to do so..it will be something as Cynay suggested for my growth in my new life! (All my own
CHOICES)
Hang in there MTB and next time just breathe 10 times before you pick up that phone it is not worth the energy wasted from you!