I have few women friends in the program and I always hug them but if it is some woman I just kinda know I dont just nod most of th time I was always afraid they would think I was up to no good.Sometimes I dont want a hug just dont touch me.I certainly dont think I'm making anyone jealous.My wife had few problems with women calling in the begining but after she saw action on my part I think she would have sent me off with anyone long as I stayed sober.