Karen, my husband is also in the rooms, and though I'm typically very proud to be on his arm (or him on mine), there are sometimes that I get the green eyed dragon breathing down my neck, and it drives me nuts. He's very intelligent, well-spoken and funny...and MINE!
Then I realize that at those times, I'm usually not feeling good about myself. There's a reading in either the Daily Reflections or As Bill Sees it that talks about the character defect of thinking poorly of oneself. I'll try to remember to look it up (or someone here will no doubt chime in with it!). Basically, it says that your HP made you and loves you as you are, so who are you to his/her/its creation?
You are a good person. I can feel it in your posts. Keep telling yourself that, and those resentful feelings will shrink. I can almost guarantee it.
Peace & Love,
Sugah