Oh Cece... you are soo funny! Poor thing!! What a weekend.
I did find it a little disturbing the first time I had a life event that DID NOT include my kid - like you, I think I was searching around for my "scapegoat" and felt a little uncomfortable when it turned out to land on MY doorstep!
I hope you get weller sooner (I agree with Cat - that p-monia is nothing to mess with!)