Originally Posted by
prodigal 
Hot sex is just that - hot sex. It doesn't have much to do with taking the time to know another person in order to make a commitment based on common interests, values, or goals.
And "hot sex" with an alcoholic doesn't stay hot for long. They're sort of into having their needs met and not worrying too much about anyone else's. That, and that old battery smell that exudes from their skin after they've been drinking, the googly eyes, the dumb@ss look, the stumbling, the breath, the slurring, all adds up to one humongous stumbling block to hot sex. And I can't even fathom having sex after they get to the point of peeing all over the house. That peeing thread is still fresh in my mind.
The hottest sex I ever had was with a guy who was INTO ME!! AHA! He was so sexy and knew what he was doing. He wasn't an addict or an alcoholic. Turned out he was a womanizer. But oh did he smell and look good.