Thanks all!!!!! I called him back, he sounded sooo sick when he answered. Told him "DO NOT COME OVER" he said what and I repeated it. Told him 'HAPPY BIRTHDAY" early-it is Monday. He said with a longer sick voice-"Yeah Right-you have certainly taken care of that"!!!!! I hung up. I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted and what a weight. Should have found this site yrs. ago!!!!! LOL