Only you know the extent of what you have been thru with this man...
My H was trying to guilt and manipulate me this morning wanting me to do something for him...I almost took the bait... then I asked myself why was I going to change my whole day around him and still have to work tonight???? No I don't think so....He threw out a few acid word designed to make me feel sorry for him and I just ignored it...
His attitude changed after that when he saw AI wasn't going for it... he may still be trying to work an angle though. He taught me this...