Laurie is right. His problems, his solutions. If I can do it with my 21 year old daughter, you can do it with him. Letting him guilt you into doing something for him that he should be doing for himself does not equal love. It equals an addict manipulating a kind-hearted codie. Don't let it happen. There are places he can go for help that have professionals that know addicts. You are not powerful enough to solve his problems. All said because I care. Hugs, Marle