Tiny one.. sure hope that wasn't inteaded the way it came across.
Bonbon.. definitly invasion of privacy. I know if it was me it would bug the hell out of me asking myself "why did he do it?"
I can't see the harm in asking! Perhaps he needed a tissue. Perhaps he's just a nosy moron. But if you really like the guy find out why.. he know's what he did was wrong... well I hope so anyway! If he calls again and want's to go out again I'd say " well we need to talk about the purse incident first, I have trust issues" .. see what he say's.
BTW... has he called you back? Yucky predicament!