Breathe Susan! Don't forget to breathe ok.
Hugs to you. And thank you so much for keeping us posted. Addicts are out of their minds when they are using. It's incomprehensible. I've seen it first hand.
Beyond that. Your strength to follow thru is inspirational to me. Especially since my sons father (addict) was just released from prison and is staying with us (me and my son) now. He hasn't relapsed... yet. But if he does, he is out and he has been told. Knowing that you are able to do it with your daughter helps me know that I too, should be able to do it with him... if and when it becomes necessary.
"Lord, grant me the ability to accept the people I cannot change, the strength to change the people I can, and the wisdom to know it's me."
And ps. that lady at the police station deserves whatever she gets. you hang in there. things will get better.