I'm with you baby...I paid a lot of debt of Keiths when he died, stuff that I put on my card, money he stole the last few weeks of his life, taxes on the house. I ended up keeping the bose stereo and sold some of his tools. It still was at least $3000 out of my pocket that he owed me...If I could have gotten it back, I would have. good luck to you...Marian