My RAH did have some mental issues before his drug use. He was supposedly bi-polar or manic depressive. He was seeing someone for awhile and taking medication, it just made him sleep. He was also having anxiety. So I don't know what was actually wrong. He never even told me in the beginning he was seeing someone for this.
But for some reason he doesn't seem to have these issues anymore!
I will say my RAH is not the same person he was before. I do see a change in him since he was using drugs. He is clean now, but just not the same person. But I am probably not the same person either. I have changed alot in the past 2 years. But sometimes things he will say are pretty mean. Plus if there is an issue with our son it is me that caused it. My RAH can just never be wrong!
My RAH was using drugs everyday - it is hard to imagine that it doesn't do something to you after 2 years.