Well its kinda of ironic, i was just emailing a family friend of his that i met through my X and she said that all his life he's always been on a distructive path and made bad choices but thought that since he was newly sober and met me that it would all turn around. It really is nice to see that even someone like her wants to stay in touch with me and told me not to sit around and wait for him to realize he screwed up and SHE'S the family friend on his side.