WELCOME to sr, the addict in my life is my husband and i too am a recovering addict, sorry that you are hurting, i know your pain. you are not alone here, these kind and wise people have been a lifesaver for me. keep posting and reading all you can about addiction and codependancy, it does get better. we recommend alanon and naranon meetings, they are very good f2f support groups.
keeping you and your in my prayers