Originally Posted by
kglast 
I am not quite where she is yet but I do wake up some days and realize after an hour or so that he was not the first thing on my mind when I woke up.
kg, i didn't even realize that i've stopped thinking about my ex first thing when i wake up, too... wow!
hbb, i'm so glad you came to the realization that you would end up divorced. i can look back on things now and see that maybe things weren't as perfect as i thought they were at the time. i was trying to make something happen that just wasn't meant to be. you're gonna get through this ... i'm positive of it!